-I suck
-Another 2 lbs gain
-Don't want to talk about it.
-Will do better this week because when you are this down there is no where to go but up...Right??
-Had a big discussion about men not dating big girls... I love how skinny people think I am the only one thinking that way. I am not the only one that feels this way ,it's just life. My office was quite divided on this subject.
-Was told I was shrinking... All I could hear in my head was "not fast enough"
Ok I need to get to work, I am super late.OOPS!!
3 comments:
Sorry you had a gain. You've still come amazingly far!
You DO NOT suck. You are just in a rut. One day at a time girl.
The dating thing will come. It's cliche, but when you love yourself it's easier to put yourself out there and have others see your confidence and beauty.
Truth be told I think a lot (if not most) men prefer a bigger woman over a skinny shapeless one. :)
You don't suck. We all have gains from time to time. None of us are shrinking as fast as we'd like. (Hey! Someone noticed, right? That's got to count for something!)
Men & women of all shapes & sizes date. I used to think that no one would consider dating me at my weight (because that's what my father always told me), then in my 20s I started working at a gift shop that sold wedding party gifts. It was an eye opener. All different types of people came in as engaged couples. There were all kinds of overweight women. I realised they weren't withdrawn like I was. They were confident, outgoing, funny. Maybe that was just because they had gotten engaged, I don't know, but at the time I remember thinking, "oh, it's not so much me, as it is the way I think." I really think it was my low self esteem that kept me from dating (and still keeps me from a lot of things.)
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