Meetings

Two weeks ago, I went with my mom to see what TOPS was all about. The one we went to were run by very elderly people(nothing wrong with old folks) just not very energetic. They don't have common sense to keep stuff private, all they wanted to do was talk about so and so twin girls. Nothing food related.
Longest meeting in my life.

Yesterday, we went to another TOPS meeting in a different location because we heard it was better and french. So we are bilingual we decided to try it.
Well it was better, but I was still bored out of my mind.
So on the way home, we were talking about it. I think in reality I am just not a meeting person .

When I was attending WW meetings I would be constantly thinking is this almost over... Although in the beginning it really helped me after like 6 mths I just stop staying for the meetings.
I can't imagine had I stuck around for the meetings for 2 yrs.

So now there is another option tonight. There is a woman who has meetings and WI today . I heard it was just the Canadian food guide and half price to WW. I'm thinking about going.

Maybe I am just not a meeting person, the stepping on the scale in front of someone else is enough to keep me accountable.

So the question is ... Do I join TOPS and pay 2$ a week only to get weighted in.?
Do I try tonight to see what that's like??
Do I bend over so I can get a virtual kick in the butt and start my good habits again, maybe even WI by pic and post it once a week.?
Very confused!